My purpose here is to share my creations, my growing knowledge of web design, graphics creation, and resources with my visitors. It seems one of my "tube" names may have offended "Sam" who left no real comment other than my tube name was offensive. I did some research and found that it can be offensive if the term is used generally so I removed the tube and I apologize to Sam or anyone else who may have been offended. Being that my Great-Grandmother was pure Choctaw it would seem that I would have heard that the term "Squaw" is offensive but I had not. Being that I live in Colorado that has a great population of Native Americans and several of my friends are Native American you would have thought I would have heard that the name I gave my tube was negative, but I had not. Within minutes I Googled the term and learned that the name is given to several landmarks - and many groups, including Oprah want those names changed. But I did not know this. Although I rally around many civil-rights causes, including re-naming teams like "Redskins", "Braves", etc. "Squaw" was not something I had heard about in the negative sense. So I am embarrassed of my ignorance. Especially since I made the tube for a woman who is Native American. She never complained about the name and thanked me for the tube.
I have learned that blogging can become very negative in a matter of seconds. No matter how positive one might be, someone who has a negative or different opinion will pick a fight with a blogger just to demean or hurt the feelings of the blogger -- to make a point. I used to blog quite a bit until one day I was face to face with negativity and became negative myself. I didn't like the aura or karma that that dialog brought upon my website so I shut down for a year because it just wasn't worth it. I try to see the good in people no matter what background, race, creed, or whatever. If I have a different opinion of what a blogger says I do it openly, not anonymously and I bring facts to back up my argument -- or I just leave the site and never go back rather than waste my time trying to prove we have different opinions.
I am human and we all make mistakes, whether purposely or not. I deleted Sam's comment and my own response so I can keep this site positive. Hopefully in the future a visitor can leave a real comment with email or other contact info and come across as helpful and informative instead of rude and indifferent.